| Apr. 19th, 2005 @ 12:29 am why why why? |
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Current Mood:  infuriated
Current Music: my head pounding
why do i do so much?
why is it too much to ask u to care?
why do you feel everything i ask is too much?
why does this feel so one sided?
why cant you understand?!
lis·ten Audio pronunciation of "listen" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (lsn)
intr.v. lis·tened, lis·ten·ing, lis·tens
1. To make an effort to hear something: listen to the radio; listening for the bell.
2. To pay attention; heed: “She encouraged me to listen carefully to what country people called mother wit” (Maya Angelou).
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Actively listen
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Be other-directed; focus on the person communicating
Follow and understand the speaker as if you were walking in their shoes
Listen with your ears but also with your eyes and other senses
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Be aware: non-verbally acknowledge points in the speech
Let the argument or presentation run its course
Don't agree or disagree, but encourage the train of thought
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Be involved:
Actively respond to questions and directions
Use your body position (e.g. lean forward) and attention to encourage the speaker and signal your interest
wow do you get me worked up, i swear
u make huge deals about little things and so do i but try to understand
what i am going through, at school all the time
i have the patients of a saint and lately you have been pissssssin me
off, it might be because of the distance or because i have a lot of
work and finals are coming up soon but whatever the reason u need to be
there for me, listen AND respond fucking respond, i tell you i dont
want it to be like that, at least give me a fuckin suggestion, meet me
halfway once in a while, because i have met you on your side for so so
long. dont make me wait for no reason, plain and simple, realize that
somtimes i should come before singing, you have a good voice a half
hour or hour of talking wont fuck it up that much, it wont be the end
of things if you dont have a perfect voice lesson but it could be a lot
worse if you dont give me a little more time to talk, realize that
theres give and take with everything and if you take too much there
isnt going to be anything left after a while. there are a few things
that you really need to stop and honestly think about good and hard. if
i am upset, it is a good idea not to make me feel bad about something
bothering me, i am getting tired of sacraficing so much for what in
return? get mad at me allll you want for me saying this, but i know
good and well i am well warranted in my thoughts and feelings. i'm not
saying all this so you get mad but do i ever want you to just sit down
and think about it more than anything, a long serious thought. i am one
of the kindest, most thoughtful, and considerate people that has been
there whenever you needed, think about that for a little
UGHHHHHHH
its like you dont even care that i'm pissed, its like would it be
horrible for you to nicely say i'm sorry you feel like that i really
dont want you to feel like i dont care cause i really really do, and i
just dont know what i can do to change that
and i know you are gonna say ohh i said that, well the way you say something really makes a difference somtimes
i cant even think anymore, i'm gonna go toss and turn in my bed for
hours thinking about this, maybe i'll get to sleep around 2 if i ever
get it off my mind..................................
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